Searching for community often becomes lonely. It is very important to develop social networks to settle down, to meet new people, and feel at home. To this end, related to work, school, or a new venture, the following practical tips will help find some local social networks in your new country.
1. Start with Online Communities
Even before setting foot in your new country, join online forums, social media groups, and apps focused on expats or locals in the area. Platforms such as Facebook, Meetup, and Reddit have groups for specific cities, interests, or nationalities. An example search might be “Expats in City” or “Your Nationality in Country”, both of which might present results of lively communities posting tips, organizing meet-ups, and generally supporting each other.
Bumble BFF, Couchsurfing, or Internations can also be helpful in meeting people with common interests or lifestyles. Be pro-active – comment on posts, ask questions and introduce yourself in those groups so that you can start building your network.
2. Attend Local Events and Gathering
After settling in, attending local activities is one of the best ways you can meet someone face-to-face. While looking for events closely related to culture, music, major fairs, or sports found in your city, there can also be expat meetings, language exchanges, or networking nights to those who are new to the city.
Browse community boards in your nearest library, café, or cultural center for activities scheduled in your area. Eventbrite and Meetup are also great ways to find events that suit personal interests, all the way from hiking to book clubs.
3. Leverage Work or School Networks
If you’ve moved to a new area to work or study, it’s worth exploring some of the social options these places have on offer by relating to building teams or projects and after-work social gatherings. For example, most universities today have student organizations, cultural clubs, and orientation events where students can meet people with similar backgrounds or interests. For the professionals in the industry, you can join an association of professionals in the industry, or have attended one of their conferences to meet with some colleagues who may be prospective mentors.
4. Get Involved in Your Neighborhood
Neighboring relationships begin with your very own environment. Familiarize yourself with your neighbors, frequent local coffee shops, and sign up in a gym close by. Most times, the community centers host programs such as yoga, cooking class, or even a book club-to meet others living in the area.
Volunteering is another great way to integrate. It could be engaging at an animal shelter, some work helped with a local charity, or even teaching language to locals. Though giving, volunteer work is a great way to reach out and be interconnected with other people.
5. Explore Religious or Cultural Organizations
Visit the’ local places of worship or community centers associated with a religion or culture you’re interested in. These venues typically have events, study groups, or social gatherings. Connecting with others who share your values or traditions can give you comfort and a feeling of belonging in an otherwise strange environment.
6. Master the Local Tongue
Try taking a language class or at least joining a language exchange, if you are yet to master local language. This helps you develop practical skills for surviving everyday life, as well as to meet other people who are either locals or fellow immigrants learning the language. Experience learning the language together may establish strong friendships, while sending doors to deeper cultural understandings open.
7. Be Patient and Persistent
Such building of a social network takes considerable time in new cultures whose cultural norms and styles defining communication differ vastly. It is time to be open to trying new things by venturing out and discovering some differences that involve overcoming discomfort. You are even allowed to be faced with a few awkward moments or rejection; simply put yourself out there and the connections will follow.
Your trip to a sense of belonging starts with one “hello” the very first time, so don’t wait to be the first to take the step for such “hello.” Who knows, your greatest friend or most beloved community could just be a stone’s throw away.